Waiting for the perfect man...

I received that picture few weeks ago, and I find it so true! So funny at the beginning, and so true... Perfect man... You can wait and wait and wait... Because perfect man does not exist!! Has anyone seen a perfect guy? :) Not possible :) They drink too much beer, grow their belly, are lazy, stubborn and want to be Mr. Right, which first name turns out to be "Always" ;) Ok ok, calm down... I was just kidding! :) Maybe not in everything... ;P

But there is something more... "man" means also... human... It is about us! We have our disadvantages, bad sides, something that makes others crazy :) We are just who we are...We do make mistake. We do hurt others. We are sometimes not faithful, not only to others, but worst that to ourselves! We are only human beings. And maybe this is enough.
If people are not perfect, does it mean that "the perfect man" does not exist? I don't agree with that... I believe that there are perfect people... Perfect for us. For me there is someone else perfect then for you. It does not mean that he is perfect in general, but that is ideal just for me... Finding out his bad sides might be annoying, but those are going to be the things I am going to miss when he is far away... Why perfect then? Because, although I have to learn to live with those annoying features, I have to accept that, argue a bit, and so on... this is still something I am able to live with... This is the person I love and want to spend the rest of my life with. I have heard once... "You respect others for their good sides, but you love them for the bad ones". And I believe it is true.
There is a perfect person, created for me, and one created for you. The second half of the apple... but you have to work on it, discover it every day. It is about something more then superficial agreement. If we look in the same direction, have the same values, a small fight from time to time "about the dishes" is good. It makes us learn how to solve the problems. Conflicts are not bad, but the way we solve them is important. They can teach us much more about the second person, and about us, they create life between,they make us grow up... Every little thing that lives is moving. Argument means movement as well... Of course it depends about what we fight... But as I said - if we have the common goal, which is living together, and love, let's be imperfect. It will make us, him/her and our life together a bit more interesting... " Indifference is worse then fight. Where is no love, no feeling, no caring, there are no agruments"

So I am moving from that bench. I am not waiting for the perfect man. I am going to live my dream. So I wish the same to all of you! :)